In the poem ‘No, Thank you, John’, Christina Rossetti uses a
persona to challenge the patriarchal views held by society in the Victorian
times – the time this poem was written. The speaker begins by telling ‘John’
that it wasn’t her fault he “made her his toast”. This suggests that the
character the poem is addressed to has lied, and told everyone he was in a
relationship with the speaker. The word “made” projects that the speaker was forced
into this and had no say, making them seem weak. However, Rossetti juxtaposes
this view by portraying an assertive view throughout the rest of the poem from
the speaker. In the following stanza, the speaker declares her pity for John,
by saying “pity on you”, making her seem more powerful than him. This
challenges the patriarchal society that existed at the time the poem was
written, and shows an unusual female dominance over men. The assertive tone
used by the persona is also unusual, as women were expected to fit into society’s
ideas of being ladylike and feminine. Women living in the Victorian era were
also expected to obey their husbands and respect other men, as they were more
powerful than them. This expectation was held until the women’s suffrage became
a national movement in 1872. Masculine-like assertiveness is progressed as the
speaker continues addressing John throughout the poem, stating that she would “rather
answer ‘no’ to fifty Johns, than answer ‘yes’” to him. Using humour as a
defence mechanism, the speaker is perhaps mocking John’s attempt to give her
affection. This highlights the power the persona has, which contrasts to the
idea that she was “made” to be in a relationship with John. Having this
juxtaposition makes the audience even more aware of her power and dominance
over John, despite how society expected women to behave.
Rossetti also uses a persona in this poem to relate love and
relationships to a battle or war. By using the word “treaty”, the speaker makes
it known that she wants peace between her and John. As a “treaty” is used to
declare peace after battle, the poet immediately links the speaker’s
relationship with John to a battle. This may link to the context of the poem, as
this poem was written around the same time as the woman’s suffrage movement, a
battle for rights. In saying this, the speaker may be ‘battling’ against John’s
affection, as because she is a woman she evidently is less powerful than him and
has to fight for her rejection to be heard. The speaker’s assertiveness also
relates to a soldiers tone of voice. “Rise above” almost commands John to get
over the speaker, as a soldier may be commanded to battle, or to follow orders.
This may imply that the speaker wants John to fight against his affection for
her as at the time the poem was written, men were seen as the more strong and powerful
sex, and were expected to be less emotive as women. The use of caesura
emphasises the command, as it halts the rhythm of the poem and therefore makes
the command stand out. This is almost as if the calm is disrupted and a slight
aggression is released from the speaker, making her seem more commanding and
powerful, similarly to a high-ranking soldier.
Christina Rossetti also breaks the rhythm in the
poem when the speaker mocks John. At the beginning of the fourth stanza, the
speaker says “I have no heart?”, perhaps sarcastically questioning one of John’s
insults towards her. This question breaks the speaker’s rhythm in the poem, implying
that she is amazed at his critism. The speaker also mocks John when she says he
is “mad to take offense” at her rejection, and tells him “use your common sense”.
Again, projecting her assertiveness, the speaker mockingly treats John as if he’s
a child as opposed to her lover. This links to the idea that Rossetti uses the
speaker to declare her negativity towards the patriarchal society of the time,
and implies that she thinks male dominance over females is comical.